Hanbang Unni, CEO of a marriage information company, said in a YouTube video on the 5th, "You vaguely think you'll get married someday, but in your 40s, you face the situation of being single and ask, 'Why am I still the same?'" and pointed out, "This can't be seen simply as laziness or a mistake in objectifying myself." The main cause is said to be the 'optimistic bias' formed since my teenage years, and Han said, "When I was a student, if I had a month left until the exam, I would think, 'There's still a month left,' but then study at the last minute, He says, 'If I had done just a little more, I could have gotten into a good university,'" and ,,, "I mistake my potential for ability, and I think that in the future, I will study, lose weight, and meet good people." In your twenties, As opportunities to meet the opposite sex continue, a situation of choices overloads occurs, and people mistakenly believe that "since the opposite sex keeps appearing, marriage will happen someday," they do not deepen their meetings but only raise expectations like, "Since the bad car has gone, Mercedes will come." Han pointed out, "When the candidates become diverse, no one is selective," adding, "After meeting a man with a 70-point score, people expect 80 or 90-point points, but even if they fail, opportunities come again, and there is a validity period." In your 30s, people tend to package their decision as caution, but even when they feel anxious about marriage news around them, they maintain an attitude of "as long as they're okay," without clear standards for the type of person they want . They maintain this attitude. Regarding this, CEO Han warned, "It's 'decision avoidance' to avoid regret and responsibility if you make a wrong choice," and added, "Delaying marriage doesn't mean your choices are frozen." In your 40s Opportunities for blind dates sharply decrease, and people are now in a position where they must be chosen by the opposite sex. CEO Han advised, "People think you have to work hard for college, jobs, and financial investment, but strangely, when it comes to marriage, they say, 'If a good person appears, that'll be fine.'" ,,, advised, "Leaving decisions on your own is just an excuse to pass decisions onto your future self. You have to make your own life plans and decide who to meet and what to give up."
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